Leaps of faith… (cannonball)
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What you can expect today:
- Riley’s Raw Thoughts: Are you full of shit?
- Story & Lesson: Leaps of faith
- Questions & Answers: What would you do?
Riley’s Raw Thoughts: Are you full of shit?
Something on my mind & heart:
This video I watched this week from Gary Vee slapped me in the face.
It’s raw, semi-brutal, and real. (vulgarity warning)
The lesson? A lot of people (myself included) have been full of Shit.
Limiting beliefs cause us to chase our tails on the hamster wheel trying to “figure” things out.
It’s the bullshit we feed ourselves that keeps us from doing the only thing that actually matters.
Taking action.
What I am building & learning:
I launched my community last week! We are nearing 10 members so far, and I hosted two group calls last week. (It’s free by the way.)
I am learning the importance of something called C.C.I.A.
- C – Constant
- C– Consistent
- I – Imperfect
- A – Action
Just start, especially when you aren’t ready.
I’ve also decided to condense my 5 years of experience, and millions of dollars worth of sales knowledge into a niche-community for Real Estate Agents called “The Six Figure Solo Agent School”.
More on that soon, however I think I will only talk about the progress with that on here rather than market it.
Keeping the main thing (break the cycle) the main thing.
How I recently won & failed:
I had a huge win recently, and it came in the form of a perspective change.
Most people have what I would call a “core” limiting belief. It stems from their childhood, and general life experience.
I am happy to go deeper on that another time, but for now I’ll share mine.
I am not enough.
It’s something that has haunted me, and served me at the same time.
- I constantly strive to be better, no matter how much I grow or do.
- I constantly feel like nothing I ever do will be enough.
What a sick sense of humor our creator has.
The win? I remembered the truth.
We are all created in the image of perfection. We are the physical manifestation of divinity (The Divine, aka “God”, “The Universe”, or “The Creator”)
How could I, or anyone else not be enough?
We are basically demigods, gifted with the ability to create and manifest anything we can bring ourselves to believe is possible.
What would happen if I lived from that place? I am not the stories I tell myself, labels placed on me, or the shortcomings I may have.
I am (you are) made in the image of the infinite, and by existing am good enough – in fact, perfect.
Chew on that, and let me know your thoughts.
Simultaneously, I’ve been failing myself with my sleep schedule.
Who would’ve thought that 2+ years of sleeping to little, at inconsistent times would take a toll?
Not me, lol.
That’s the THING right now. It will solve most of my problems when I get reset.
For my consistent sleepers out there, put me on some game if you have a chance haha!
Story & Lesson: Leaps of faith
All of us have times in our lives when we doubt ourselves. We forget our worth, and question ourselves.
Have you ever taken a leap of faith?
- Acted against logic, and trusted your intuition
- Made a “rash” decision
- Surrendered to life without a guarantee
Boy have I. When I begin to doubt myself it helps to think of a specific story or two… I think you have one just like it in your own life.
For context, I recently pulled the trigger and am now moving to Austin, Texas on July 16th. I’ve never been there in my life.
Crazy? Perhaps. But I trust my gut, and for whatever reason I am being called to go there.
Here’s a reminder for both of us to trust your gut, and let go of doubt.
Long story short, in my career I took a major leap of faith years ago.
- I had earned $80k in a year selling cars, and was on track to do $100k+ the next year.
- I was the top salesman at my dealership, in my first year of working there.
- I would’ve easily went on to earn $120-150k+ in a few years time.
But, I had the gut feeling I needed to go into Real Estate. Everyone in my dealership questioned my decision, and doubted me.
- “How is it going to feel when you don’t make any money?”
- “Most real estate agents don’t make it.”
- “You are too young to sell real estate.”
I saved up three months of income, and quit my job. Within the first month, I had to pay fees to become an agent – and was down to two months of income.
I had 60 days to sell a house, or I would go broke.
By day 45 I still hadn’t sold a home, and was 15 days away from having to call it quits. My faith was tested, but I had delusional self belief I could do it.
- To sell a house it normally takes 20-45 day.
- I had no clients.
But, on day 60 I closed my first deal – and somehow pulled off selling a home in 11 days.
Fortune favors the bold.
Whatever you are afraid to take the leap on, it’s time to cannon ball.
Questions & Answers: What would you do?
This week, I want to ask you a question.
“What would you do differently with your life if you knew you couldn’t fail?”
Reply to this email with a question if you want to be featured on my newsletter and get some 1on1 advice.
In Case You Missed It:
In Saturdays Issue, I covered the importance of having a vision for your life. If you want to learn how to not be full of regret on your deathbed, this one is for you.
You can read it here.
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