You aren’t who you think you are (mind over matter)
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What you can expect today:
- The Topic: Who do you think you’re not?
- The Tip: How the mind works
- The Takeaway: Let’s reprogram your mind
- The Thought: Those that came before me
- The Tribute: Open minded = unlimited potential
- The Top Video: Self improvement is painful
Today’s Topic: Who do you think you’re not?
The mind works in mysterious ways as they say.
One principle in psychology is that “Being precedes doing”.
In simple terms: You do things that match who you think you are.
Your identity (who you think you are) leads to the actions you take (what you do).
- A “poor” person won’t behave the same way as a “rich” person.
- An “athlete” will have a totally different set of habits than a “couch potato”.
The thing is, these labels we place on ourselves start from inside of us.
Someone being “poor” or “rich” has nothing to do with their money situation.
In fact it’s the other way around: they think of themselves as one or the other… and their external situation matches it.
We think of ourselves as a certain “person”.
We then behave (Act) in a way that matches that self image.
So, my question today is “Who do you think you’re not?”
We try so hard to make changes in our lives, but often fall short.
The reason why?
We don’t identify ourselves as “that type of person” yet.
You won’t steal from your family to buy crack, unless you were a crack addict.
You won’t wake up early to hit the gym, unless you are a “gym rat”.
You can’t stop living paycheck to paycheck, because you are “broke”.
We don’t normally act out of character, unless we start to identify ourselves differently.
If you committed to believing you were a certain type of person… you’d do the things, and have the results that person would do.
This isn’t a theory, this is psychological principle.
Today’s Tip: The science behind success
We are creating our life, and ourselves every single day.
Nothing in our world is “fixed”, but only a reflection of ourselves.
In fact, there is a repetitive loop that takes place constantly.
Here is a visual I put together to give you an idea of how this works:
Your program → your thoughts → your feelings → your actions → your results → repeat.
Most people are not aware of their program, and do nothing to intentionally reprogram themselves for the life and results they want.
They are recklessly creating their life on autopilot with a program they didn’t choose.
The program of their life is a combination of the fear based program of those around them:
- Parents
- Teachers
- Family Members
- Friends
and now, their own.
Reply to this email if this woke you up like it did me!
We are powerful creators, with infinite potential.
The only thing holding us back is ourselves, and we can overcome this with our mind.
Today’s Takeaway: Let’s reprogram your mind
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Today’s Thought: Those that came before me
I am not the only one to know this. In fact, I learned this from many different people.
Here is a quote to summarize what we covered today.
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“Your programming leads to your thoughts; your thoughts lead to your feelings; your feelings lead to your actions; your actions leads to your results. Therefore, just as is done with a personal computer, by changing your programming, you take the first essential step to changing your results.”
T. Harv Eker
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Today’s Tribute: An ode to you
Each week I am going to give a tribute to someone special:
- A member in the community
- Impactful people in my life
- One of my clients kicking ass
This week, I want to shout you out.
Yes, you. The absolute bad ass of a human being reading this right now.
Out of all the people in the world, I am lucky enough to be connected to and supported by you!
You are a curious, open minded, and resilient person.
They made people like you special, you weren’t meant to be like everyone else.
You came here for a purpose, and have more to offer the world than you could ever imagine.
Life is yours to make however you desire, because you are worthy of the best life has.
I believe in you, and know in my heart you are capable of anything you put your mind to.
The people in your life look up to you, and are inspired by who you choose to be every single day.
You don’t have to be so hard on yourself. But, don’t sell yourself short.
You feel deep down you are here for a reason.
You’ve known that since you were a little kid… don’t ever let that die.
I can’t wait to celebrate the success, happiness, and impact you create in your life.
Because after today you will be overwhelmed by blessings, abundance, and inspiration like never before.
Claim it, because you are worthy.
I’m here if you need a pat on the back, or a kick in the ass.
Rooting for you,
Riley.
Top Video This Week:
Self Improvement is Painful
This video talks about two things you can do to get unstuck, and why self improvement has to be painful.
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With love, support, & gratitude,
Riley Conder
“It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop.” – Confucius
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