Bet on yourself (no one else will)
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What you can expect today:
- Riley’s Raw Thoughts: You are a master manifestor, and you didn’t even know it
- Story & Lesson: Bet on yourself, no one else will
- Questions & Answers: Dealing with doubt “in the middle”
Riley’s Raw Thoughts: You are a master manifestor, and you didn’t even know it
Something on my mind & heart:
Rising to the occasion.
How often in life does the universe (or God if that feels better) tee us up for the opportunity of a lifetime?
We get an inspired idea, and a glimpse of a brighter future or amazing outcome.
We see a vision, and for a second our mind starts to stretch:
- Imagination running wild.
- A rush of dopamine, and excitement.
- The dots connecting in our mind, and complete clarity.
And then, just as quickly as it came… it vanishes.
Our fear creeps in, the doubt becomes deafening, and we start to question if we are capable of the thing.
Inspiration means “in spirit”.
My belief is that when we become inspired, it’s a direct gift from the divine.
We wouldn’t receive it, if we weren’t capable of realizing it.
We are constantly co-creating our lives with the hand of the divine.
God gives us “instructions” or a path, and we allow our fear based programming to talk us out of greatness.
It was given to you, because it wants to be created through you.
You are the vessel.
Whatever you are inspired to do right now, go all in.
Don’t let your higher self, God, the Universe, or yourself down.
What I am building & learning:
I learned recently that Manifestation is not complicated, or even “woo-woo”.
It’s not this fairy tale, delusional, or even “theory” based thing.
It’s actually quite simple.
According to a book I am reading called Project 3.6.9:
“Manifestation is a thought, fully realized and brought to completion; a thought or idea materialized.”
How simple is that?
You (and me), without even realizing it are master manifestors.
If you have ever had a thought, or idea and made it happen… you are a master manifestor.
Manifestation is a spiritual concept, and is what most people would call “success”.
Becoming successful means:
- Being in pursuit of, and making progress towards a worthy ideal or goal (working towards something that is meaningful at all times)
- Realizing the thing you are pursuing (accomplishing what you set out for, otherwise known as manifestation)
So, with that in mind…
Here is what I am building, or actually more so moving towards with my brand.
“Success Is Spiritual”.
I’m not completely clear on how it will all pan out, but I think this will evolve into the frame of reference I use to make content.
I am equally invested into being “success minded” as I am to being “spiritual”.
And, there are others out there like me that I can provide value to.
Or, there are those out there like me in the past that are missing one, or both of these crucial ingredients to a good life.
Either way, I am excited to see it play out.
How I recently won & failed:
Huge wins this week:
- First paying members in my new Real Estate Agent School
- Closed two real estate deals, and put another under contract
- Made up for some broken promises from the past
Overall, it’s been a damn good week.
My losses this week:
- Destroyed my sleep schedule again by working, or being out and about until 10-11pm (lol)
- Overcommitted myself to many things at once (I’m super good at doing that)
- Missed some crucial milestones to put me on track for my goals (bummer)
About to disconnect from the world for three days, and wipe the slate clean for the big changes ahead.
Story & Lesson: Bet on yourself, no one else will
Several times in my life I have taken massive bets on myself:
- Leaving home at around age seventeen and providing for my ex while going to high school.
- Quitting my hourly job to run my landscaping business at seventeen years old.
- Jumping into sales with no prior experience, or guaranteed income at eighteen.
- Leaving car sales to go into real estate, with 60 days or less to get paid.
- Calling off an engagement, and radically changing my lifestyle.
And many more examples of me being a crazy man on a mission.
Now, I am about to move to Austin Texas next week.
- I’ve never been there.
- I have no guarantee of what life will look like moving forwards.
- There is uncertainty, fear, and risk.
But, like every other time it feels right.
I don’t have to know why, or how.
Only, does it feel right in my gut and heart.
If yes, full send.
If no, off the table.
Here is what I’ve learned each time:
Above all else, at every point of betting on myself people have been in my ear yapping about this and that.
- What if you fail?
- What if it doesn’t work out?
- How are you going to make it work?
- Is it the right decision?
And, every time I have trusted myself first… and it ended up being more than okay.
Nobody is going to bet on you, but if you want to do anything extraordinary with your life you must.
All in, no plan b, no going back.
Wish me luck, and watch me thrive.
I appreciate your support.
Questions & Answers: Dealing with doubt “in the middle”
This question comes from a long time friend, and one of the men going to my retreat named Chad.
He asked “How do you deal with the doubt that creeps in once you set your sights on a new target?”
Great question.
This is the “secret” so to speak when it comes to reaching a new target.
Focus so much on what it will feel like when you accomplish the thing, that it drowns out your doubt.
Doubt is unfortunately something you can’t avoid, but it is something you can transform.
Become delusional, and I mean bat Shit crazy about how convinced you are that what you are aiming for is possible.
Soak yourself in the feeling of what it would feel like when you accomplish it.
Brainwash yourself to be so determined, and enthusiastic about reaching this target.
Eventually, you will reach it – and “play the part”. Your brain will rewire itself, and get on the same page with you.
Hope this helps, it’s exactly what I do to stay in the game.
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In Case You Missed It:
In Saturdays Issue, I covered a life lesson I learned from Karate Kid that is sure to give you a breakthrough.
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