How I always get my way (so you can too)
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What you can expect today:
- Riley’s Raw Thoughts: Do you take yourself for granted?
- Story & Lesson: How I always get my way (so you can too)
- Questions & Answers: How I overcame being suicidal
Riley’s Raw Thoughts: Do you take yourself for granted?
Something on my mind & heart:
Enjoy the time you get to be “you”.
My personal experience has lead me to see that we never truly die, in fact nothing in the universe does.
It is only being transformed. Sure, I may only be Riley in this lifetime but my essence will be repurposed into something else.
Nothing is created or destroyed as they say, only changed.
So with that in mind – how much are you enjoying being you?
Do you soak it in and explore this beautiful human being you are?
Or, do you look for every flaw and shortcoming you think you have?
I spent most of my life hating who I thought I was.
I didn’t treat Riley so good.
In all honesty I didn’t even know who I was.
But when I remember that I am more than Riley, and the odds of me being alive as this person right now are slim… I realize how lucky I am to be me.
How cool is it to be this unique human for this run of life?
Maybe we take it to seriously, when in reality we can have fun with it.
- Cut your hair, or grow it out.
- Get a tattoo and change your style.
- Go dance around like a maniac.
- Learn to sing or play an instrument.
- Take care of your body.
Love yourself.
Because not to long from now this run ends, and you won’t ever be you again.
What I am building & learning:
For those that have been following along… I’ve learned a lot in the last two years.
More skills, experience, and wisdom I could ever put into words.
The fun part? They are all beginning to blend together.
Like an orchestra they synchronize to support me as I build cool stuff.
Something cool I built with Aubree is the new retreat website.
Here’s the link!
Our co-ed retreats for the rest of this year are now open for enrollment.
Reach out if you are interested or have questions.
How I recently won & failed:
The most recent win I want to share: I woke up before 5am yesterday and had the most productive day I have had in months.
The recent failure: I slept in past my alarm this morning til around 630am and felt like a dumbass.
Man, sometimes I am my own worst enemy. Other times I am my biggest support system.
Either way – tomorrow is a new day and the lesson is to keep self talk positive while celebrating any win I can.
Treating myself poorly didn’t work before, and it won’t work now to create change.
Story & Lesson: How I always get my way (so you can too)
I’ve realized that for whatever reason I always tend to get what I want.
It doesn’t always happen on the timeline I want – but sooner or later I find a way to make it (or let it) happen.
This has shown up in many different ways:
- The opportunity to run retreats professionally less than two years from setting the goal.
- Getting to travel and experience new things often.
- Moving out of my home state.
- Escaping 9-5 work.
I made a decision long ago to “live on my terms”.
I don’t do things other people want me to do.
I don’t limit my mindset to what is possible.
I don’t let fear stop me from taking action.
Here is what has allowed me to do this: Persistence.
In other words… locking my eyes on something and no matter what believing I can and will do it.
Not letting up when the going gets tough. Not allowing other people talk me out of my dreams. Not listening to my fear or insecurity.
Whatever it is you want – decide it’s yours and ignore any other possibility.
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“Once you make a decision, the universe conspires to make it happen.”
Ralph Waldo Emerson
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And, as always I am here to support you on your journey to getting it.
Questions & Answers: How I overcame being suicidal
Aubree and I were recently interviewed on a podcast.
The episode will release soon and when it does I will share… but they asked us about how we first found ayahuasca and this video is my story!
I would love to hear your thoughts, and if you feel called to experience this magic reply to this email or check this link out for more info 🙂
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In Case You Missed It:
In Saturdays Issue, I covered how we are constantly co-creating our life… and really aren’t alone no matter how much it can feel that way at times.
You can read it here.
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Thank you for joining me this week.
With love, support, & gratitude,
Riley Conder
“It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop.” – Confucius
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